I couldn't comment on MBS last week and can't today.
I've been trying to leave a comment at Consensual Spanking for over a week and a half now. (Red suggested a Yahoo group to his readers... (tried to join, but the moderator denied my membership)... :(
When I sign in to Google blogger it acts like it knows me.
However, when I go to another blog and try to post a comment it thinks I'm anonymous and doesn't recognize the CAPTCHA when I type it in. So, communication in the blogger world appears to be stymied.
UPDATE
Blogger still acting up..
I can post to this blog but even if I try to comment on this post it only sees me as anonymous :(
I even cleared all cookies and rebooted and then came back and signed in to no avail.
Try logging on to Blogger first. Then open the other blog (Consensual Spanking) in a new tab. Blogger should still recognize you.
ReplyDeleteGood luck!
Hermione
It appears that they have finally fixed Blogger after a couple of weeks of serious problems.
ReplyDeleteYep. Not loving Blogger lately! I have no solutions, just comiseration.
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ReplyDeleteI also find that it is a stress reliever. My wife read about some study on stress relief conducted at some Russian University where volunteers both male and female were caned on their bare bottoms by a member of the opposite sex with the result that stress levels became greatly reduced. I suggested this to my wife and we agreed to try it. We both found it sexy but didnt seem to reduce stress by much.
ReplyDeleteOne day following an argument when I had yelled and said some bad things to my wife which I later regretted and apologied for. My wife told me she would forgive me but I would have to agree to let her punish me with the cane. Of course I readily agreed and we both went into the bedroom when my wife placed some pillows on the edge of the bed and had me bend over them when she wasted no time in lowering my pants. She told me to stay in that
positition while she fetched the cane. She then delivered a few strokes and I started to feel an erection coming on. She then said I can see your enjoying this, but that was just practice, you are meant to be punished for the way you treated me so you better be ready for the real caning I am about to give you.
With that she proceeded to administer at least twenty hard strokes which had me jumping and panting with each painful stroke. When finished she told me I could get up and she put her arms
out and hugged me close to her and told me that she loved me very much and that was why she had caned me so hard as she felt it was something that both I and our marriage needed.
She then sat on the bed and pulled me over ger lap when she applied some lotion to my burning and very welted bottom. The funny thing was that I felt loved and with a feeling of
closeness and bonding I had never felt before. I felt very relaxed and peaceful. We then fell asleep with our arms around each other.
Sice then we have never argued again. When I feel stress and tension building up, I know it's time for a spanking and will text my wife or if I am with her will scratch the palm of her hand and we will schedule a spanking session for the next weekend. I now realize that my outbursts were the result of stress and tension builing up and my wife was the closest one to take it out on. The spankings are just as hard, as that is what is necessary to relieve the tension. I find the thought of a spanking sexy but the actual spanking still hurts, but it is worth it for the feelings of with closeness and bonding which follow. We both feel more relaxed. Also the next day I have a warm tingling feeling in my bottom, which reminds me of my wife and how much I love her and how lucky I am to have her.
I don't fully understand how spanking works to reduce stress, but have read theories that it releases certain chemicals including endorphins which produce a calming effect on the brain,
I also forget all my job and money worries for a while as when my bottom is exposed and the knowlesge that my wife is totally in charge my mind is occpied with mentally preparing
to process the next stroke. My wife tells me this is something I have always needed but just didn't know it. I think she is probably right. She claims that she gets no sexual satisfaction
from spanking me but she is happy with the results and enjoys the temporary feeling of power and control she feels. I also can feel this as I am abandoning control and admire and respect my wife even more for being assertive. I should add that I have a stressful job and am in charge of other people so I guess part of the appeal is being relieved of that responsibility once in a while.