IT"S ACTUALLY RARE that my fine lady ever reads my blog wee today she tofd me sh just read my blog

the good news is that there may be more bjs in my future but tthet are sure to include liberal dposses of jokari and oak jhairbrush paddles

two kinds of learning

there are two kinds of learning there is knowledge and there is experience knowlege comes when you leaern fom the mistakes of others. a month or three ago I mentioned a blog that aappeared new to me by joeysubmits caLLED AT HER FEET, IN INE OF HIS POSTS HE DESCRIBED BEING SPANKED AFTTER AN ORGASMSPECIFICALLY AFTER HAVING BEEN GIVEN ABJby HIS WIFE Well the thoughT of a spanking on top of a fresh orgasm with all nerve endings craving more sensationwas scary to say the least. i psted about it aa fear on Fetlife... So guess what I got this past Fridayand yes if you arewondering  it hurt like all hell
















































































































































































































































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What is it about a Stress Relief Spanking?

We spankos with TTWD can think up dozens if not hundreds of reasons for a spanking. Everything from discipline to maintenance and even for stress relief.

Naturally, I've had stress relief on my mind for quite sometime now... Actually, I'm really desperate for it.

What is the big attraction of a spanking for stress relief? This question has been hounding me.

When one is stressed out with money problems, job problems or lack of same I suppose after a while the big appeal is the thought of having ones brain completely occupied by something other than the constant worries of the day.

There can sometimes be the temporary relief by the proper administration of a sufficient dose of alcohol... But, that offers others issues too and just doesn't offer the more instant relief that comes from the firm and repeated application of the hand, strap, paddle  or cane to buttocks.

Some of The benefits:

• You are instantly reminded that someone knows and cares and will take action to remind they are there and will help.
• For a little while, it's absolutely impossible to think about anything else other than the spanking that is happening.
• The closeness recharges the relationship and offers a feeling of safety that you're not alone.
• Instantly changes attitude
• Reminds for hours or, properly for days

Stressed Out and No Relief

Stress is out of control and no relief in sight.

Every turn and option just looks like more grief and agravation.

Being the typical spanko I would love some stress relief from the business end of My Fine Lady's wooden paddle... But, she's still not feeling well and to even suggest or outright ask again is out of the question and would be insensitive and selfish.

Blogger Still Damaged

I suppose I'm not the only one having problems with blogger lately... I guess others are too.


I couldn't comment on MBS last week and can't today.

I've been trying to leave a comment at Consensual Spanking for over a week and a half now. (Red suggested a Yahoo group to his readers... (tried to join, but the moderator denied my membership)... :(

When I sign in to Google blogger it acts like it knows me.

However, when I go to another blog and try to post a comment it thinks I'm anonymous and doesn't recognize the CAPTCHA when I type it in. So, communication in the blogger world appears to be stymied.



UPDATE

Blogger still acting up..

I can post to this blog but even if I try to comment on this post it only sees me as anonymous :(

I even cleared all cookies and rebooted and then came back and signed in to no avail.

Mercinary

Ok, so all you occaisional but loyal readers may know...
I would never compromise the integrity of my blog under any circumstanes...

Except for Cold Hard Cash!!!

Bouncing around in blogworld I found a 'Gadget' that calculates the 'value' of a blog... I set it at the bott,m of the page but it just doesn't seem to print out and since they don't pay me to debug their code that is how it will likely stay.

The damn-fool thing values this blog at $40,393.92 (insert axim 'Show me 'da money'... etc.

I can't get the blasted HTML/Java to recognize in blogger or you would be able to gawk at the foolishness yourself.

Now Web Address 'value' is a rather subjective term unless someone is standing before you with a fist-full of pictures of dead presidents. In that case... it's grab green... run like hell.

I wonder... what sort of Gold-Mine something like Bonnie's MBS might be...

Then again... without seeing Scude, Escarole, Donero, Greenbacks, etc... It's all a crock of shit.

Then again lets talk about real blog value.

For me the real blogs of value have been created by DWC Mike, Scully and Recedivist.Many others too... Some gone, others pop up on occaision or hints of their existance linger on... Yet as some may fade, names change to protect the inocent (or not so inocent) TTWD goes on...

Seems to flicker sometimes but never seems to die...

Yet to many of those early blog pioneers we owe a priceless debt.. Thanks to you all if you continue to lurk and browse and I imagine you just may... 'cause I can't imagine this thing ever leaves the blood whatever it might be... TTWD.

To those pioneers and all of those who follow... A Heart-Felt Cheers!!!

Their Contributions?

Pricelless!

Tight-ie White-ies (part deux)

So, in spite of my hatred for tight-ie whiteies...
I've been wearing them.

Why?
Because one of those things I crave along with a bottom burning spanking is the sensation of having them lowered for me.

You know, that little tug that will reveal my rock hard ding-ding that gives away the sexual excitement of an impending spanking. Reveals my over white buttocks that will soon be turned bright red. My buttocks that will soon be turned hot, throbing, and sore.

Damn, this whole spanking thing is full of those little things that only happen for a few seconds yet occupy our minds for hours.

Tighty-White-ies (part-one)

You readers out there have no reason at all to know how much I hate wearing ‘tightly white-ies’.




Actually for decades I’ve been a ‘go commando guy’.



Basically, it goes back to the time shortly after .I was married to X-wife. You see we wanted babies, and we read that men who wore tightly white-ies were less fertile.



Something about gonads held closer to the body, and body heat killing sperm count and all of that stuff. The result was that almost instantly after X stopping birth control I managed to deliver the needed seed.



So, apparently I’m the sort of guy who can simply look at a woman and get her pregnant. Which, of course isn’t a comforting ability when one is working the singles market, and not comforting when in a relationship with a wonderful woman like My Fine Lady who happens to be in the prime of child bearing years.

Frankly, the concept that my little ding-ding is an incredibly dangerous pregnant weapon is even a concern if she should give me a nice hand-job and then go the bathroom… Well, not that I don’t love being a daddy, and my full grown sons are the best part of my life…But at my advanced age it’s NOT time to hit the reset button if you know what I mean.

But I digress…

For the past two weeks, I’ve been wearing tightie whiteies…

(cont)

Happy Birthday

I've used photos from one of the women on the Fetlife F/m Spanking Group before. Hisboss is one of my favorites there, mainly... if you read her profile you can't help but admire how she responded when her husband approached her about his desire to be spanked and controlled.  

Well, now her husband has had a surprise birthday present.

A spanking from Dana Specht!

See it here.

New Blog

There is a new blog out there in Al Gore's internet by joeysubmits and I see he is lacking followers. So, I would like to suggest his blog At Her Feet. He's only made a couple of posts so far but  I have a feeling his writing style and stories will appeal to many of us.

Stop by, follow and maybe encourage him, there may be lots more of us out there.